Chronicles of my time as a Youth Development-Special Education Trainer Volunteer in the Peace Corps. The required disclaimer: The content of this blog is a compilation of my own personal experiences and viewpoints and are not reflective of those of the US Peace Corps, US government, or any other entity.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
2 posts in 1 week... it's a miracle!
Today is election day all over Peru! They're electing town mayor, regional president (kinda like state governor?) and the regional president's councilmen. It's kinda a big deal. A TON of money has been spent on campaigns- signs, rallies, concerts, buying votes. In my town, there are a total of NINE candidates for mayor- for a town of 16,000 people. Let me just say elections in Peru are kinda crazy. There has been a ban on purchasing or consuming alcohol since Friday and goes until tomorrow, although this evening it will probably be broken once results are read. In Peru, voting is mandatory. If you don't vote, you don't get a sticker on your ID card, and without that sticker you can't get a job or do any sort of "tramites" (documents, for lack of a better word). In order to get that sticker, you have to pay a fine that varies from S/.70- S/.15, depending on the poverty of the place you vote in. Absentee ballots don't exist, so if you're registered to vote in Cayalti, but live in Lima, you have to travel back to Cayalti just to vote. Recently, they passed some legislation that allows Peruvians living abroad to vote, but from what I heard, only a certain percentage of those votes count.. don't quote me on that! The exciting part is that we get to do this allll over again in April for presidential elections. Yay!
In other not so happy news, last night we found out that my host uncle, Tio Jose, died of a heart attack. He was just here on Wednesday and was helping me with my College Fair project. He gave me great contacts for 3 institutions and I was going to invite him to the Feria when he came today to vote in the local elections. He was fine when we saw him just a couple days ago. Apparently he went and saw other family members in Cayalti and called some friends he had been out of touch with for awhile. They're saying he was despidiendose.. saying goodbye to everyone. Saturday morning he woke up with problems with his eye or his vision and then went for a run. He was overweight, but ate healthily for a Peruvian and tried to get exercise. He was only 58. After the run he came back for lunch and had a really really bad headache, so he went to lay down. His wife was concerned and went to check on him not even 3 minutes later and found him more or less foaming from the mouth. His son took him to the hospital, where he passed away. I'm finding it hard to wrap my mind around it that I just saw the man on Wednesday and on Saturday he was dead. My host family is distraught. He was a very kind and giving man and really believed in education. He helped my host sister through college and was helping some of my cousins and my brother too. I remember joking that no matter what time we ate lonche (our evening meal), be it 5pm or 10pm, he was there... like he had a sixth sense for food. Tio Jose would show up with bread or a newspaper and would sit for hours talking (I'll admit I often got bored) about everything, especially current events. He'll buried in Trujillo tomorrow (about 3 hours south of where I live) and my family left in a hurry today. Tio Jose was a professor at the national university in Chiclayo, and they sent a bus to Trujillo and my family took advantage of this free transportation to be able to go to his funeral. I was thinking about going, but opted to stay home. I don't do well at funerals, and peruvian funerals are particularly sad. They stay up all night sitting on hard benches "acompanando"-- keeping the body company. The mom/sisters/wife often cry, no, wail and its a sound that just pierces your heart. Then they take the body and walk from the house to the church and the church to the cemetery accompanied by a band and more crying. It was just more than I think I could handle, and I also I thought my family might want some time without having to worry about the gringa. Rest in peace Tio Jose, you'll be missed by many.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Maybe some pictures soon... until then, cuidense!
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
July was a rather busy month. I had Camp VALOR (50 teenage boys for 2.5 days....) and then right after that (at the same time actually..) the new trainees (now volunteers) came up for FBT... the week of practice in the field to see what its "really like". They came to my site and taught Vocational Orientation to 3 of my 4 classes. I think I need to take them with my every week, because even the worst behaved classes were angels. (that's also when they made cake...) Then I went down to Lima for a training session about working with Community Disability Organizations and a surprise (for me) session on goal 3.2. I had about 1 hour to whip up something. I got to spend Fiestas Patrias with Isa and some of her friends; ate yummy food, had some good drinks and good times.
August started with the PEPFAR conference-- a 3 day event talking about how to create HIV prevention projects. I had a whopping FOUR socios turn up! Three were sent as replacements for the people I invited, but it ended up working out for the best. I finally got an in with the health post. For the rest of August, I went at least once a week to the health post to meet with the doctor and/or obstetrician to plan our project. I submitted it last week and is approved pending paperwork that I am turning in tomorrow. The basic gist is that we are doing monthly sessions with the 4th grade high schoolers (2nd to last year, about 14-15 yrs old) about HIV prevention and have a t-shirt design contest with the winning class getting t-shirts. And us too, of course! The culminating event is a parade (known here as pasacalle) for World AIDS Day on Dec. 1st. I didn't want to do another one, but got talked into it by the doctor and obstetrician. They promised they would help me and that I wouldn't be as stressed as last year. After looking at my pictures they told me it looked like I had a great parade last year and they didn't understand why I was anxious. I'll take it as a good sign that I mentioned it to my school director and he offered up the school band's support!
Nicole, my sitemate, and I are also hard at work planning a College Fair. This was a new concept to most people we talked to, so there was a bit of confusion. Some of that might have been that at first we referred to it as a "Feria de Carreras". Carrera can mean race or career (how they refer to majors in college). Now we are calling it a "Feria Vocacional de Universidades e Institutos" which more or less translates to a University and Institute Vocational Fair, and the idea gets across a lot quicker. So far, 3 of the 4 institutions we have invited have confirmed that they are coming. We still need to invite a LOT of institutions, so there's a lot of work to be done still. We are also compiling a University and Institute Guide to give to each High School that has basic information about majors, costs and admissions requirements. The idea for this started because even though we are only 1 hour from the city, many of our kids and their families don't have money or time to spend a day or more in the city going from school to school getting information. We wanted to bring the information TO them and also make it available to our youth in caserios (small rural areas away from town center). For those kids, the idea of going to a technical institute might be a whole new concept, since their families are mostly dedicated to agriculture or animal raising. It's all very exciting, and a bit stressful as the days pass. But I think it will end up being a great thing for our kids and their families.
So right now I'm in Lima for mid-service medical exams. Tons of fun. I've been poked and prodded just about everywhere, but turns out I'm A-ok. Got to go to the dermatologist and get some persistent acne checked out and have my psoriasis looked at too. The fish oil mom brought has been awesome, but he wants me to use some stronger steroid too. Hopefully that will get rid of the bit that's still there.
I'll look through photos and see if there's anything fun to put up. I lost my camera at the end of July, it literally disappeared, so no photos since then. just got a new one brought from America, so I get to take more pictures! yay.
Really missing home and everyone there, but buoyed by the small successes I'm having here.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
¡Feliz Aniversario!
My Health Promoters are planning a movie night on Saturday in front of the park to talk about HIV prevention, show some testimonies, and then show a movie. It is their first activity that they are planning, so hopefully it will go well. They’re also in the process of designing t-shirts for when they do events. We’ll see on Sunday what designs they come up with :)
Last week I had a charla with a group of moms in one of the neighborhoods (not so far away as the caserios, but not exactly close to much either). It was in a small neighborhood chapel dedicated to some saint and an obstetrician came from Chiclayo and talked about women’s reproductive health. I hope to continue monthly charlas with this group of women and talk about all sorts of topics from hand washing to family violence. Any suggestions or resources, let me know! We’re also planning a Pap smear campaign where professionals will come from Chiclayo and for only S/.5 the women get a pap smear. This usually costs S/.10 plus another S/.7-10 for travel so it’s a great opportunity for the women. They will also bring medicine and I’m hoping to coordinate to have HIV tests available for free at the same time. The HIV test costs S/.35 if you get it done privately, but the Health Post has a certain amount of them to give to women of childbearing age to help prevent vertical transmission (mother to child).
I just got hooked up with an NGO in Chiclayo that works with preventing disabilities and part of their strategy is working to prevent teenage pregnancies. They will be working with the 4th and 5th graders at San Martín, one of the high schools, in my town. So I’ve been trying to coordinate with the person in charge of the NGO and the directors at the school to get a group trained and then for them to give the charlas to the other students; we’ll see how all that goes.
After months of feeling like I’m doing nothing here, I finally feel like perhaps I’m actually having some sort of impact. We’ll see about the whole “behavior change” thing being successful, but at least I’m doing something, hopefully.
I’ve spent months complaining about the heat, well, now the cold is here. I’m sleeping in sweatpants and socks and have worn jeans various times in the past couple weeks. The mosquitoes are still out and biting, and my blood is still just as sweet. Mom comes in just over a week, and she’s going to think I’m a liar for all the talk about how hot it is here, and now it’s cold.
The new group of Youth Development and Small Business volunteers come this week. Peru 15. Crazy to think, we won’t be the youngest odd number group anymore. I’ll be going down in July to give a training about working with community disability groups and so will get to meet at least the YD volunteers. There will be 35 of them! That’s how many were in my WHOLE group. Craziness.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
more pictures!
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Picture Time!
Friday, April 16, 2010
Is anyone still reading this??
I had a fever and it was really hot that day and I broke my phone. Let’s just say that sweat and phone screens don’t get along very well. After many emails and phone calls and trips to Chiclayo, I have a “new” phone which is really just an old phone from a volunteer that left. I call it the piedra—the rock—because it pretty much is. It’s an old school Nokia, but much more practical for PCV life than the flip phone I had before; I don’t have Tetris anymore, but I’ve got a FLASHLIGHT!!!
So for my Health Promoters I made a manual for them, to help them when they do their talks and what not. I showed to my APCD (my boss in PC speak) and she liked it and wants to send it off to Washington to make it available to volunteers in other countries. I’m gonna be famous! At least in the Spanish-speaking Peace Corps world… lol.
OH! I forgot that towards the end of February I presented my Community Diagnostic, a 50ish page document, all in Spanish that took me 3 months to research and write. This should be more important for the people of my town, than for me, but of the 35 institutions that I invited, only 5 bothered to show up. Mind you, that inviting 35 institutions means writing a formal “oficio” or letter and making copies and THEN walking all over town in the sun and heat handing them out and making sure everyone signs the “cargo” (my copy) to prove they got it. Just handing them out was an all day affair. (I did the same for my health promoters graduation with worse results…) So for the presentation I got all dressed, put on make up, heels, slacks, and a blouse I had to IRON. I was nervous mostly because I know how judgmental my town can be and knew that no matter what I did or didn’t do it wouldn’t be right or sufficient. And I was right. After presenting, I opened it up for questions and the first comment I got was, “I congratulate you for what you’ve done, but there’s a lot of holes in it and it still lacks a lot.” Well gee thanks. Glad I spent 3 months of my life doing something that no one here has ever attempted to do, oh and I did preface by saying it’s a living document and in no way am I pretending that it’s complete. The joys of being a volunteer… you’re likely the one most invested in what you are doing in the community.
Since the end of March, I haven’t been in site very much. I left on Sunday March 21 (happy bday mom!) for a dentist appointment and a meeting in Lima. I was back in site Thursday morning and left that Wednesday morning (the 31st) for vacation! We got 4 free vacation days for Semana Santa (Holy Week) and so I took advantage and went to Mancora, a sunny beach in Piura. I ate a lot of yummy food, got some sun and went out until the wee hours of the morning. Easter Sunday I had an omelet at a restaurant owned by gringos called Green Eggs and Ham, but it was nothing like Easter at home. No Peeps and chocolate crosses and jelly beans (though mom says they’re on the way!). Then I travelled back to Piura and had a delicious salad at Cappuccinos (third time eating there in 5 days.. yes!) and then got on a bus back to Chiclayo and back to site. I luckily have no crazy Semana Santa stories, unlike others from my group that got lost in the Colca Canyon or were stuck on a dugout canoe for 18 hours with 14 people in the Jungle.
On the way to Lima, my laptop got a “golpe”, it was hit somehow, and the screen broke, it was white and had lines going across it. I took it to get fixed before heading on vacation, and $210 later I have a shiny new laptop screen!
So I came back from vacation Sunday night and left again Monday afternoon for PDM- Project and Design Management- a training we had in Lima and had to bring a counterpart from our sites. I brought Felix, the treasurer from the Association of People with Disabilities. We planned a project to train the association members in different types of crafts and artesania so that they can sell them and improve their economic situation. It was a long 2.5 days. I was supposed to have a dentist appointment on Monday (I have to get a crown remade) but since there were no bus tickets for Easter Sunday I had to travel on Monday. Instead my dentist appointment was Friday, after the training. It’s a series of 3 appointments and the second was yesterday. Unfortunately something happened, the mould wasn’t right or something, but the tooth base didn’t fit right, so they had to re-make the form and send it out again. So I have another appointment on Monday to do what was supposed to happen yesterday. After that, there’s one more appointment… hopefully on Wednesday. If not, it will be Thursday. Thursday and Friday I have a meeting of Special Ed volunteers to plan training for Peru 15 and talk about best practices etc. So I need to be out of Lima Wednesday night. That and I’m getting tired of Lima. It’ll have been over 2 weeks in Lima… and about 3 weeks out of site (4 if we don’t count the fact that I was there for like 20 hours…)
To break it up, last weekend I went to see my host sister Yadira and my nephews Bryam and Randy. It was nice to see them after not seeing them for a few months and also to get out of the touristy section of Lima for a bit. I’m going to go see my training host family this weekend since I only got to see them for about 2 hours when we were in Chaclacayo for PDM. I’m really excited to get to spend some real time with them and get out of the hostel for a night or two.
When I finally get back to site, I’ll be starting a Vocational Orientation class with all of the 5th graders (last year of HS) at San Martin, one of the public High Schools. It was supposed to start the 13th, but I was stuck in Lima still. I’ll be working with about 100 students, hopefully helping them to learn to set goals and figure out what they want to do when they graduate in December. Most kids in my community want to be “great professionals” but don’t know what they want to be exactly or aren’t doing anything to help reach that goal of being a great professional. Teen pregnancy in my site is at about 9.5% and went from 30 cases in 2008 to 77 cases in 2009. Kids are having sex at a very young age and not thinking about the consequences. I want them to set goals for their lives and realize that having a baby is going to make it hard to go to college or even the institute and will change their lives forever. I’m going to work in some HIV/AIDS and general sex ed sessions so hopefully that will help on that front.
The best part is that my site mate and I are planning an awesome Career/College Fair in October to bring representatives from the colleges and institutes in the area to my town to give the kids a chance to get information from them without having to go all the way to Chiclayo. We’re also going to have a parent session about how to pay for it and other worries parents have. We want to invite a couple of professionals (based on the kids’ interests) to come and talk about their profession and also how they got to where they are. Like I said, it’s gonna be amazing!
While I’ve been on a “sabbatical” in Lima, I was informed that there is now dengue in my site. Dengue is carried by mosquitoes (which LOVE my blood!) that bite during the day. It’s treatable the first time, but according to our PC doctor, the second time you’re pretty much guaranteed to die. I will be bathing even more in bug repellent than I did before!
I’ll post some pictures in a separate post since this one is already so long. Sorry if it’s an incredibly boring post but not too much exciting has been going on. Especially not here alone in Lima…
I miss everyone incredibly and am counting down the days until my mommy comes (64 days!!) and waiting anxiously until my sister figures out when she is coming. It will be so amazing to see my family again. And also get clothes that fit properly!!!
Until the next time,
Sarita
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Who has the turtle? and I AM NOT MOLLY!
Despite this, I managed to get a group of Health Promoters focused in the promotion of healthy lifestyles and the prevention of HIV, AIDS and STDs. We have about 20 youth and 5 adults participating and it seems to be going well. I had to fight with the municipality to let us use the auditorium because the Miss Cayaltí candidates had practice, despite the municipality signing an agreement with an organization in Chiclayo and 2 other districts saying they would support HIV/AIDS prevention efforts and having previously agreed to let us use the auditorium for Health Promoters. In the end I have a signed note from one of the guys in the municipality saying to let us use the space. We´re working with the organization that the Municipality signed an agreement with, Viviendo en Positivo (Living Positive), which is formed of people living with HIV and AIDs and also gays and sex workers. They obviously have more experience with the topic than I do and probably more than the obstetrician or nurse do. Even higher ups in the health system are incredibly underskilled. Bringing me to my next topic.
I am continually amazed/frustrated at what passes as a professional here. Respected and experienced doctors and health professionals regularly insist that someone has a cold because of sleeping with a fan on, eating ice cream, eating hot food and drinking a cold drink, being embarrassed among other things. These are people that should know the basics of health that sicknesses are caused by viruses and bacteria. I understand when a layperson says that; its lore that´s been passed down for generations. But really. If you have completed training to be a nurse and especially if you are a doctor, you should know that a bacteria or virus getting past someone´s immune system is what causes colds, flu, and respiratory infections. Maybe eating ice cream could give you a stomach ache if the dairy wasn´t properly pasteurized but again that would be the culprit of a bacteria! I find it a really sad state of affairs when my high school health education is superior than that of a trained nurse. I know I´m here to help, but I´m also supposed to have people in the community to work with. I could spend two years trying to train health professionals (which I´m really not qualified to do at all...).
Molly. Molly was a really great volunteer from Peru 5 I believe, meaning she left 2 years ago. There was another volunteer that came after her from Peru 9 but she was only here for 3 months and then went home, so no one really remembers her. But Molly was very outgoing, liked to run and play sports, and had no qualms about being dragged out in front of the whole town to dance Marinera or Huayno. I am not Molly. I´m less than outgoing and am not at all athletic. And most of all I really don´t like dancing, especially in front of the whole town. More and more I´ve been getting people calling me Molly or telling me "why don´t you do such and such, Molly used to" Or You´re the same as Molly , right? No. I am not Molly. I am Sara. I have my own personality, my own likes and dislikes and my own strengths and weaknesses. This has come to a culmination lately with the anniversary. A group of old women sitting on a bench in the park while a band was playing yelled to me "Profe! why aren´t you dancing? Why aren´t you like Molly.. Molly liked to dance!" Between wanting to correct them-- I am not a profe-- and wanting to hit them in the face I calmly, though probably a bit tersly replied that I am not Molly, I am Sara. We´re different. And anyways, you´re not dancing either! Goodbye. That, and they must have not seen when I did get pulled out to dance Huayno after the parade in front of everyone and though really not wanting to, went without a fight and put on a smile, because it was the respectful thing to do.
More and more I´m craving people that understand me and don´t pick apart my every move or laugh at me all the time. The difficulties of December have continued, but in a different form. At least now I have some mini successes to reflect on and I at least feel somewhat useful.
Now for some funnies. So this past week I went to the city of Piura for a conference on Monitoring and Evaluation of Projects, specifically those funded by PEPFAR (President´s Emergency Plan For AIDS Relief), ie my Health Promoters. Well, we were supposed to bring community partners, but no one wanted to leave Cayalti for the anniversary (great timing!) so I went alone. I travelled with the people Nicole (my site mate in Zaña) was bringing since she was already up in Piura for HIV Initiative Committee meetings. One of them was a minor (one of her health promoters) and we didn´t know that to get on an interprovincial bus she would need notarized permision from her mother or father. Well, she was intent on going. She wanted us to say that the other woman was her aunt, that her mom was waiting in Piura, that we should forge a document, that we should combi hop. I was like no no no. This will not do. 1. combi hopping (the most viable option) can be dangerous and we were travelling with luggage .. i had my computer and 2. interprovincially I have to travel on approved busses. So she finally more or less accepted her fate that she´d have to go back to Zaña. I accompanied her to the terminal and put her on a bus. Well, at the door of the bus was a clown. A clown very insitent on saying hi to me. Despite replying to his Hola, he insisted again.. maybe I didn´t say hola loud enough. Either way, it was weird first having to have the clown move so she could get on the bus and then having the little hola match. So I get back to the bus station, we buy tickets and wait about 30 mins for the bus. Meanwhile, the security guard is walking around asking "Who has the turtle??" I look up, confused, and see two women with a small carboard box under their feet with various nickel sized holes cut into it. Then I heard them say "Better we don´t admit to it..." They topped this off by trying to give it water, a process which involved spilling a great deal of water on the box and lots of giggling. Unfortunately they weren´t on our bus so I didn´t get to see if the turtle caused any more drama or not. The best part of Piura though was a really yummy restaurant where I had an amazing salad and an ice cream place that has amazing milkshakes.
In other news, I have decided that it would be a good time to start stressing myself out about what to do come August 2011. Namely what do I want to go back to school for and which test will be required so that I can start studying.
Oh, and have I mentioned how ungodly hot it is? Really it´s probably only 85-90º, but there´s no AC and the sun is ridiculously strong (hence 2 sunburns in 1 week...). Adobe is a great insulater, but unfortunately my room is like a jail cell and there is no air flow what so ever and I can only put up with so much of my family in the living room where there is airflow. TV, music on the computer and a nephew playing cajon on every imaginable surface and whining is a bit much.
Please February, be kind to this Peace Corps Volunteer....
Monday, January 4, 2010
Merry? Christmas and Happy New Year!
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Rain
Today I woke up to the familiar sound of rain falling. Familiar in another life. Here in my desert home in Northern Peru it’s a very foreign sound. I awoke and thought the sound I heard was the water coming from the tap someone left open until it ran dry yesterday morning or maybe that I was delusional. I looked out my window through the mesh I duct taped in to keep the bugs out and looked at my “backyard”, which is really a small area we call a corral where we raise ducks and guinea pigs and noticed that the ducks were drenched and the dirt floor was now mud. At first I was glum; trekking around in the rain is not my favorite thing to do because then you’re stuck in wet clothes. But then I realized I’d finally get to break out my spiffy raincoat to wear as I made my way to the special school. I stepped out of my room and grabbed my tea cup, since it oddly wasn’t yet on the table. No sooner than I set the cup on the table, my host mom comes running into the “dining room” fretting that the water isn’t boiled yet because she thought I wouldn’t be getting up early. Confused, I stood there; she knows that on Tuesdays and Thursdays I go to the special school at 9 and am up somewhere between 8 and 8:30. Then, with a chuckle, I realize it’s because of the rain. Because it’s raining, there probably won’t be school. I must have looked surprised or incredulous because she tells me, “Ven. Mira!” as she directs me to the door to look at the lake forming in front of our door and rain continuing to come down. With a laugh I think, “What the crap… we’re not in Cajamarca!”, and follow instructions to go back to bed despite wanting to go play in the rain. Cajamarca is another department, in the mountains of Peru, where it is currently wet season and volunteers make good use of their raincoats.
Later, as we’re eating lunch, my host mom asks if it rains like that in the states to which I say yes. My host sister asks if we have thunder and lightning storms, and I tell her I LOVE THEM. Then my host mom asks if I like to go out and play in the rain. I LOVE PLAYING IN THE RAIN! Laughing and slightly embarrassed, I tell her that I wanted to go play in the rain, but didn’t want the neighbors to think I’ve completely lost it. She told me I should have gone and played in the rain anyway and that she likes to go stand in the rain and get wet. So now I know, the next time it rains cats and dogs in the desert I’m taking my host mom to go play in the rain.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Sunday, November 1, 2009
I feel well adjusted to my town, but am still searching for how exactly I fit in with the
organizations I´ll be working with. I don´t want to just be another set of hands at the special school but don´t yet have the confianza with the teachers to try and make any changes. The school year is winding down (dec. 30ish it ends) and so I think I´ll continue observing and thinking of things for next year. I participated in a march for inclusion a couple weeks back in Chiclayo, but nothing was done IN my town for the week of inclusion.
My english classes are going. And while it´s not exactly what I want to be doing it gives me something to do and for the most part the kids seem to enjoy it. They are doing demolition and then reconstructing in the school, so our classroom has changed. They now study in the afternoon and are in a room the size of a closet. there is barely room to pass through the 2 rows of double desks. BUT we now have a white board!! I greatly prefer white boards to chalk boards in the states, but here the preference is even greater. In the states, at least chalk boards are typically smooth and you can more or less read what is written on them. Here, the chalk board is part of the plaster wall that has been painted with chalk board paint and is bumpy and makes the writing almost illegible.
I have pictures to post and stories to go along with them, but will do that later. Just wanted you all (those few that read this.. haha) to know I´m alive and well and enjoying my peruvian life.
Also, if you get the ganas (desire) to send me anything, I would love crossword puzzles. I did the one in the newspaper almost daily before, but the crossword puzzles here are weird- and in spanish. So if someone wants to clip their daily puzzle, save up a few and send them to me I would be forever grateful. Other things that make my life happy: chocolate, notes about what´s going on, magazines you´ve already read- I don´t really get much world news down here, swedish fish, and if someone could figure out how to send chicken harvest soup and the salad bar from prospector´s I would be in love! :)
Love and miss everyone and hope you´re enjoying Fall while I sweat my butt off down here.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Pictures
Friday, September 25, 2009
Lesson to the gringos: when you travel or go abroad for charity, don´t just give things out. It creates a culture in which people expect all gringos to come bearing gifts and reduces their ability to be self sufficient. Work WITH the people, give them your time and friendship, share your skills. The whole the give a man a fish thing.. it´s true.
In other news. I´ve been keeping busy with my special school 2 days a week, working on my diagnostic (though not as much as I should be..) and going to various meetings here and in Chiclayo. I just promised to teach my dad´s elementary kids English 1 hour a week, starting next Wednesday so we´ll see how that goes. I have no idea how to teach English so this should fun. I´m meeting tons of people, most of whom I don´t remember their name but at least I try to remember their position or role, such as the lady that works in the municipality or which school they are the director of, etc. still no marriage proposals, though one guy straight up asked me to have his child and I´ve had plenty of people tell me they are sure I´ll find my Peruvian boyfriend and in the same breath warn me about Peruvian men.
Oh, I also apparently have really tasty blood. The mosquitoes have eaten me alive, mostly my arms and my face which makes for an attractive look. I´m told that once the mosquitoes get to know me, they won´t bite as much. Still, I asked the doctor to send me some bug repellent which I will coat myself in every day. I couldn´t figure out why there were so many mosquitoes (and I've been told it´s not even mosquito season yet) and then the doctor mentioned all the rice fields and it clicked. My town is surrounded by rice fields, sugar cane, and corn. Growing rice involved large amounts of stagnant water and mosquitoes breed in stagnant water. Thus making my site mosquito heaven. Note to self-turn down any possible invite to work the rice fields.
ok, it´s time for my afternoon siesta. let´s see how many mosquitoes bite me in my sleep.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Dear Grandpop,
You would also like the big machines. While the farms are mostly run by manual labor- men and women bent over planting, weeding, and harvesting there are also a good number of big machines. If you were here, you´d probably be able to tell me what they´re all for, but I have no idea, ust that they´re BIG. Our street was being paved and there were more big machines, but also men with buckets of sand and a broom. Quite the contrast.
Most of all, you´d like the drinking circles and cheap beer. It´s not uncomon to start at 9 am on a Sunday and spend the whole day drinking. Or after a long day in the fields to partake in a drinking circle. Sometimes they drink canaso, a strong homemade liquor they make from sugar cane, but usually its one of Peru´s various cheap beers, Pilsen and Cristal and once in awhile Brahma if the money´s really tight. If they´re in a spending mood, they might splurge for a Cusquena which is not too bad. Grandpop, you could pass hours in a drinking circle sharing a couple cases of beer and stories about your farm equipment and what you jerry-rigged that day.
I could see you sitting around shooting the breeze with any number of the various old men I see hanging around town. And when I see something poorly jerry-rigged, I smile and think to myself "My grandpa coulda done better."
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
A couple of photos
This is what being a Youth PCV is all about. Getting hugged by 14 mothers and a father all at once with heads landing where you´d rather they didn´t. This was a dinamica we did at the end of the Escuela de Padres session and it allowed normally reserved parents to be silly for a little. The session was about healthy communication with your children. Part of my job is working with parents of youth to change some behaviors at home and thereby improve the lives of the youth. I had so much fun and I think the parents enjoyed it too. I love my job!!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Monday was a really awkward day. I didn’t know what to do with myself and was still feeling very overwhelmed. I also was rather entrenched in a lovely cold I brought with my from Lima (I guess that is what a week of stress and then going out until 5am does to your immune system!) I decided that Monday would be one day. My one day to mope to do nothing and be more or less antisocial. Tuesday I would get up and go. Do SOMETHING. Well, since Tuesday I’ve been fairly busy. I’ve been going to various meetings with parents, students, female community leaders and even was invited to a regional meeting in Chiclayo with the president of a national NGO is that is starting to work with youth in my area. Monday I think I’m helping to weigh and measure students as part of a physical and psychological check that my socio is working on. This week I want to start meeting with different school directors and get working on my community diagnostic. I also want to identify a school and group of kids with whom I can work on the World Map Project. I think I might also spend some time reading in the park and putting my face out there.
I am indescribably happy. My site isn’t gorgeous like Ancash or Cajamarca (do a google picture search to see some of the beauty my fellow PCVs are living in) but it has its charm. The road through the caserios (farms) at sunset is amazing. You’re surrounded by sugar cane and corn fields with mountains off in the distance, a slight breeze blowing and a gorgeous orangey-pink sky. If you look close you might even catch a glimpse of some pretty birds hanging out in the fields. I am living and working with people who are passionate about their work, who realize the potential of their community and are working to better it. I walk around town and a big wave of contentment hits me- how lucky I am to be living the life I am, to be sharing it with amazing people, and to be able to do a little bit of good in the process.
Now for some funny anecdotes from this past week.
A girl I met once just showed up at my door with her English homework asking me to help her. She came again the next day, this time with 3 friends. Those 2 hours each day were so much fun.
- I won Tupperware at a meeting the other day.
- At the same meeting, I watched 30 women participate in communal cry therapy. Two of them were nursing children while crying. I was the only one that thought there was anything odd about this.
- I ate an amazing plate of chicken and French fries. For about $1.25.
- In another meeting- Escuela de Padres- Parents School- I was simultaneously hugged by 15 women. I had various heads in places that women’s heads should not go.
- A man danced to Michael Jackson’s “Billy Jean” at a festival in honor of Saint Rosa of Lima. There was another man, very drunk man, dancing on his knees and on the floor.
- I ate Cuy for the first time today! It was yummy, a bit tough and chewy, but more or less tastes like chicken. It’s a lot of work to eat though.
- I have discovered that it seems that many Peruvians have an unreal obsession with Michael Jackson, especially the song “Thriller”. I have discovered that PCVs (at least from my group) enjoy feeding into this obsession and I think it has rubbed off on a few.
- Also, cheesy America’s Funniest Home Videos type clips, especially those that come from Japan or involve bodily harm, are very popular. It is also acceptable to show said clips for nearly 1 hour while waiting for a meeting to start. I now know how to be prepared!
Photos in the next post. They take forever to load. I miss everyone a ton but and really enjoying myself here.